Popular Nigerian writer and influencer Solomon Buchi has weighed in on the ongoing infidelity saga involving singer Oluwadolarz and his fiancée, Ifeluv. Buchi’s comments come in the wake of a viral video featuring Oluwadolarz’s mother pleading with Ifeluv not to leave her son amidst allegations of infidelity and financial irresponsibility.
The situation escalated when Ifeluv publicly announced her breakup with Oluwadolarz, who is also the father of her child. She cited his alleged cheating and lack of financial responsibility as primary reasons for her decision. This announcement has sparked significant media attention and public discourse surrounding the complexities of relationships and the expectations placed on women in such situations.
During a TikTok live session, Oluwadolarz’s mother made an emotional appeal to Ifeluv, asking her to forgive her son and reconsider their relationship. This heartfelt plea, however, did not sit well with Buchi, who took to social media to share his perspective on the matter. In a post on X, he urged Ifeluv to disregard Mama Dolarz’s request, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing her own well-being.
Buchi articulated that Mama Dolarz’s viewpoint may stem from a generational gap, noting that she may not fully understand the values and expectations of today’s youth. He advised Ifeluv, saying, “Dear Ife, while marriage is not a bed of roses, it is wrong to get into it as a bed of thorns. If indeed everything you have said about Oluwadolarz is true—his cheating spree and lack of financial stability—let him go.”
He further elaborated on the implications of infidelity, stating, “It’s one thing for a man to cheat once and make it up to you, but it is hellish and characteristic of him if he keeps sleeping with everything in a skirt.” Buchi concluded his advice by reinforcing the idea that a broken relationship is preferable to a broken marriage, encouraging Ifeluv to make a decision that would safeguard her future happiness.
Buchi’s remarks highlight broader societal discussions about relationship dynamics, particularly regarding the expectations placed on women to endure infidelity and the importance of self-respect. His advocacy for Ifeluv to prioritize her own happiness resonates with many who have experienced similar situations, emphasizing that personal well-being should take precedence over societal pressures or familial expectations.
As the conversation continues, it sheds light on the evolving views of relationships in contemporary society, underscoring the need for individuals to make informed choices that align with their values and aspirations.
